Behind every successful Women there is an understanding Husband
We have been hearing a lot about Samantha and Naga Chaitanya's divorce and each one of us judge this issue in our own way, so do you think Naga Chaitanya is not understanding Husband? do you think So Samantha cannot be successful ??
Below is my article about what do we actually mean by understanding Husband or Wife.
We hear popular quotes from famous personalities that "Always behind every successful women there is an understanding husband" I say its absolutely true for Indians, because this is how is our culture and this is how we are being brought up and developed by the society.
Unfortunately I have to say that it is not Women's capability or intelligence that will make her successful, but its just THE " " understanding husband or understanding in-laws who can make their life.
For instance, if a women tries to take care of in-laws in every possible aspect and tries to keep them comfortable, strain free and happy by taking care of even the minutest needs of them ,respects them and sees that they are not burdened at all to stay with their son and daughter in law, then the society unabashed says that aah see how understanding in-laws she got!!.
But believe me the reverse never happens ,where one can hear that they got supporting daughter in law. Not to blame any one!!!, because society sees the major chunk of people and decides that only a supporting in-laws are possible but can never be vice versa.
Even though the entire family are supporting and understanding to each other, but still the word goes like this "she has got a supporting in-laws at home and hence she is successful".
If the husband is taking care of the family very well , spends time with the kids and wife and is a jocular person, then the society again credits the women that she has got an understanding and supporting husband. No one confesses that without a women supporting her man with peaceful environment and supporting him hand in hand and taking care of other small things at home and make a lively and joyful space for him, it is not possible to become a supporting husband. Also I say that we are all part of family and hence its everyone's responsibility to take care of each other, spend time for each other and at the end of the day you get happiness, but then what is that extra qualification we are giving to man by saying supporting husband "".
Why don't we say the same to women that someone has got supporting wife??. Because we in the society feel that, wife being supporting is not added qualification to her, infact its her duty, responsibility and she is not doing any big deal by being supporting to the family .
But the same is an added qualification for Man in society.
I can say that it is very difficult to find pragmatic society anywhere.
If we think good, do good and chose right path and be moral in our decisions then I hope that every husband will become an understanding husband and every in-laws will become understanding in-laws and at the end every women become successful.
Said and Done all these points, finally I feel that there is nothing called as understanding or supporting Husband or understanding and support Wife to make a Man successful or Women Successful, Its ONLY because of mutual supporting and understanding and more than that being very flexible for each other is that a Man or Women or a husband and wife can become Successful, it can never ever be only one way .
Of course at the end of day we see different kind of people with different mentalities, the statement I pass might not suit to everyone, but if we take in general this is what is being observed everywhere and that is what I tried to present here in this article.
