Marriage is an Ocean to the Girl learn to Swim it

MARRIAGE

Every girl looks forward dreaming about the wonderful D-day in her life.

On that day She will be the cynosure of eyes decked up in the best of her jewelry and costumes and looking beautiful like an Angel who appears to fulfill all our wishes .

Relations, friends and all our well wishers ,wishes her Happy Married Life.

But little she knows why so many Best Wishes.  Because  Marriage is an Ocean, its not so easy as it involves compromises, sacrifices ,responsibilities and trust. She has to learn to turn waves of all the hurdles into happiness.

She might need to start handling too many things and too many people in life. In this generation where parents are treating Girls equally as Boys  ,Most of the Girls feels it there responsibility to take care of the parents too . So there are more chances where her parents need her and her family needs her. She should know the art of handling such situations with ease. Many marriages fail due to the reason of not able to tackle situations smartly.

  Marriage is like sailing in the ocean all alone.You need to know when to turn the direction properly. Know when to bend yourself and when to be strong while taking decisions .

  One need to face the tough tides  and strong currents,else you will be drowned.

  Women after marriage is like captain of the ship.Its with you  how you reach the ship to destination safely.

  Just like how a captain is responsible for the safe navigation   of the ship, its cleanliness ,seaworthiness, safe handling of   all cargo and  management of all personnel. So are we after   marriage.

 Be Bold,Strong and at the same time Be smart.

 Learn to Dance with the waves of troubles, Move with the   sea of understanding each other and enjoy the differences .

 Wish You Happy Married Life.

Story of Women

Women

The meaning of powerful word Women says "Success against all odds."

Women

Until Marriage, she thinks parents are her complete world and cannot live a second without their glimpse. Then comes marriage in her life, a time to leave parents, only to find another world of family. 

With the same intense she owns her husband,  in-laws and his families. Then comes kids. At this stage, she is happy and over the moon feeling, that the entire world is behind her and feels very strong and does never think about herself financially or physically. Slowly comes a stage where she starts realizing she is not that strong as she felt. 

She is not financially independent, physically strong Because things changed. The husband takes over her financially and kids emotionally. 

She Ages slowly, kids leave her slowly, parents leave her slowly. Everything that appeared to her, the same world which she was proud of and used to feel behind her disappears and fades without her knowledge. 

Now is the time she has to start understanding to live independently and feel her company is the most valuable thing, admiring herself and taking care of herself are the only things.

So Women start her life as a butterfly and end a snail.


Before you realize your world disappears without your knowledge. Make conscious efforts to realize your dreams, live your life along with making other's lives. So that your life continues to be a beautiful butterfly.

Top Reasons why a girl should be married by 25 and have kids by 30

Top Reasons why a girl should be married by 25 and have kids by 30

In this era everything happens in rocket speed , ironically except the marriage on cards. 

Here are the TOP reasons why an Indian girl should be married by the age of 25.

 Successful marriages of our parents and experiences gathered will actually detail ,why number 25 is the right number. 

If you are wondering why and how, here are few reasons .

MARRIAGE: On an average a girl completes her education by 23 , then they get minimum 2 years to concentrate on their professional front like jobs or career planning.

 Now at 25 they are pretty much comfortable and capable enough to  find right soul mate and tie the knot.

STRENGTHEN THE BOND : The pressing issue these days is separation, we see every 1 couple out of 10 are divorced or living separately and the very reason for this is late marriages,  If you are below 30 then you'r mind still has room for adjustments, compromises , you can easily adapt or change yourself to the likes or dislikes of your partner which helps to understand each other and strengthen the bond. If you are in your 30 or 35 plus then you are already too matured that you cannot adjust to other person,also you feel you are too intelligent that you are the best person to understand yourself and you are in no mood to compromise on anything and then starts the struggle between you and me , rather than WE which is very important in marriage.So the early the marriage , the best is the way you grow together.

KIDS: After marriage the very next important part of life is planning for kids, 

 Having kids immediately within an year or 2 of marriage will become an important milestone of your future when you look back at the age of 40.

For Example ,Getting ready for the first kid by 26 or 27 and second child by 30 has lot of positive reasons. 

You are now very energetic and physically healthy to handle any kind of pressures parallel at professional or personal level. 

So you have your family  when you are young and dynamic and you can enjoy the time with your kids, play with them and bask in every moment.

The major hurdle as you grow old is ,night outs for baby caring and this if you are young enough be done with ease as you are physical fit and strong. 

Being middle aged , you will not have the same energy levels to hip hop with kids.

TRAVEL: You might be thinking that you will not have time to travel with your hubby if you have planned kids early, but by this time you will be just  30 plus.

The children will be grown up by the age you are 35, and are no more toddlers .

Hence you can travel along with them .

Entire family can go for trips and enjoy time with your partner and kids, it would be lovely and great time as all of them will be in high spirits and energies.

TIME AGAIN FOR YOURSELF:  By the time you are 40, Kids are really grown up and are focused on their secondary education, You get bit of time for yourself and to plan for small couple vacations too in between. You can also now concentrate on earning money till the age you are 50 .

CONCLUSION: In conclusion, if you marry at right age, you will have right and long time to enjoy your life and be happy to see your children grown up fast along with you getting aged seamlessly.

M -- MARRY
A -- ACCEPT
R -- RESPECT
R -- REVER
I  -- IDOLIZE
A -- ADORE
G -- GIVE

E -- ENJOY

Sri Vari Brahmotsavalu at Bhavyas Tulasivanam

BHAVYA’S TULASIVANMA SRI VENKATESHWARA SWAMY BRAHMOTSAVALU

Brahmotsavam is a holy cleansing ceremony in honor of Lord Brahma.

Srivari Brahmotsavalu is very important annualfete celebrated at Bhavyas Tulasivanam every year in the month of May by Sri Anand Prasad Garu and Krishna Kumari Garu. This event is celebrated for  6 days.

During this festival the Utsava Murti(Processional diety) of Lord Venkateshwara along with Bhudevi and Sridevi will be taken on a procession on different Vahanams around the blocks of Tulasivanam, this procession appears exactly the same as how the Tirumala Brahmotsavalu procession is done on the streets(Madaveedulu) on Tirumala.

During these six days there will be Abhishekams and daily Homas performed and in the evenings the utsava-murtis are decorated with different Ornaments and  alankarams based on the Vaahanam.

All the residents, kids, elders and old aged people of Tulasivanam feel blessed to actively participate in performing kolatam, singing keertanas, natyam and serving in annaprasadam .

Anukurarpana:  Day 1 of Brahmostavalu starts with Vaasthu Homam, Harthi, Agni Prathishta and Punyahavachanam.

Dwajarohanam: Day 2 of Brahmotsavalu starts with Dwajarohanam which means hoisting flag(dhwajapatam) on the top of Dwajasthambam of the Temple. It is hoisted amid vedic chanting .It is believed that the prasadam offered as part of this will bless the childless couples and hence devotees wait to have the prasadam on this day.

After Dwajarohanam , in the evening Seshavahana Uthsavam , During this Seshavahan Uregimpu, where the diety is on Seshavahanam and residents perform Kolatam with Sesha(Snake) Cope, which is mesmerizing to observe the devotees dancing to form the serpant and swaying to the devotional music.

Hanumantha Vaahanothsavam: Day 3 of Brahmotsavalu starts with Srivari Abhishekam, Unjal Seva and in the evening there starts the Hanumantha Vaahana Uregimpu where the diety is on Hanuma Vaahanam, There is a Kolatam performance again with a cope to resemble Hanuman and it is an eye feast to watch this performance and the entire environment is filled with holy chanting of Govinda namalu.

Garuda Vahana Uthsavam: Day 4 of Bhrahmotsavalu starts with Thomala Seva, On this day there is a special Uregimpu of Mohini Tiruchi Utsavam, during this procession, devotees are believed to see the diety in the mirror and not directly, the Utsava murthi is decorated as Mohini avataram and it’s a blessing to watch him in the mirror.

In the evening it is followed by Sri Vari Garuda Vaahana Uthsavam, where the diety is on the Garuda Vahanma and the Kolatam is performed to resemble Garuda .

Kalyanothsavam: Day 5 of Brahmotsavalu is celebrated with 2 most important processions that is Radhotsavam and  Srivari Kalyanam. Radhotsavam will start in the morning at 6:00 A.M. This is symbol of worshipping Surya Bhagavan (Sun God), Devotees tow the Radham and perform Kolatam and Chidathalu dances. In the evening there will be Kalyanothsavam performed in presence of large number of couples and families , There will be live keertanas ,recitation of vedic mantras and  homas performed. The Kalyanam is performed by priests exactly in the same way as it is in Tirumala Kalyanotsavam.

Vasanthothsavam: Day 6 , the last day of Brahmotsavalu , this is much awaited by devotees ,when the diety is taken around on procession, they play with colors and enjoy this procession in a divine full manner. This is followed by Chakra snanam which is performed after special abhishekam held for processional diety  along with Sridevi and Bhudevi.

The evening concludes with Ashwa(Horse) vahanam as his vehicle symbolizing the forthcoming Kalki Avathara. The devotees perform Kolatam and they offer harathi and coconuts to vahanam in front of every block.

Finally late in the evening after the uregimpu(procession) of the vahanam , dhwajavarohanam will be performed where the flag(Garuda dwaja) is lowered  as a mark of completion of Brahmotsavalu amid the chant of various mantras.

Then they perform poornahuthi ,Visesha Naivedhyam, Brahmagosha and Ekanthaseva and concludes the Brahmotsavalu.

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RAMADAN EVERYTHING ABOUT THE HOLY MONTH

                                    RAMADAN THE HOLY MONTH

RAMADAN , the meaning of this name is , the calendar ninth month  of the Islamic calendar .

There are many beliefs on this month . Ramadan is also called as the month of mercy where  ,Successor of the Prophet Muhammad in Ramadan was killed.

Another belief is the word Ramadan came from the word “Ramadhaa” which means “Intense heat of the sun” and it was named such because it burns the sins of the believers with righteous deeds.

Muslims are involved in this month with intense prayers,dawn to dusk fasting .

They fast the entire day beginning from sunrise and end the day fast with a sip of water and dates at sunset.

During this period, they do the five daily prayers; zakat, or almsgiving; and the hajj, the pilgrimage to Mecca.

The five prayers include Fazr where they read Quran in the morning at 5:00 A.M,then followed by Zohar Prayer at midnoon 1:30 P.M, and in the evening there will be Asar at 5:00 P.M. Finally they end the day with Maghrib Prayer at 7:00 P.M and then they have Iftar with all the family members and friends.

The month is also a time of community; it is the custom for Muslims to invite their near and dear, share their evening meal – iftar and recite special Tarawih prayers in congregation.

Nowadays, the community is not just Muslims , but all are being secular and all the religions are happy to participate the iftar parties and show human relations are more than anything else.

Ramadan month lasts 29 – 30 days and ends depending on the visual sightings of the crescent moon.

On the final day they see the Chaand or crescent mood and read Quran /Khudba.

They are decked up in  beautiful bright and vibrant colors and Men go to Mazjid, Women busy preparing delicious and scrumptious Biryani, Sheet Khurma and so many delicious and nutritious food. Women do prayers at home and wish each other as “Id Mubark”. 

The ultimate goal of Ramadan is to care, share and develop a closer relationship with Allah.

IPL 2019 WINNING TEAM

                                                  IPL 2019 WINNING TEAM PREDICTION

IPL Stands for Indian Premier League .

This IPL Season is very intense with strong battles between the teams and this season

its more interesting with power hitter players like Rusell who redefined power hitting.

Also there were many other players to look for during this IPL like Rashid Khan who won the game changer award.

Finally for Sunday 12th March match between CSK and MI, CSK should be considered the worthy team to win the IPL Trophy.

Captain cool DHONI being the captain of this team, it is blatant that CSK should and will  WIN the IPL Trophy.

Also to support DHONI are the experienced players like JADEJA, HARBAJHAN SINGH and many others.


They have a great team combination of good bowlers and batsmen and not to forget the team most important All rounders.

Players like IMRAN TAHIR and DEEPAK CHAHAR strengthened the bowling attack.

CSK's  bowling attack has 4 superb spinners which also counts for their win.


They have experienced Batsmen  like DJ BRAVO ,SURESH RAINA and SHANE WATSON.


They have Been into the Finals for record SIX times(2008, 10, 11, 12, 13, 15).

So Finally today's cup is worthy for  CHENNAI SUPER KINGS.