Top Reasons why a girl
should be married by 25 and have kids by 30
In this era everything happens in rocket speed , ironically except the marriage on cards.
Here are the TOP reasons why an
Indian girl should be married by the age of 25.
Successful marriages of our parents and
experiences gathered will actually detail ,why number 25 is the right number.
If you are
wondering why and how, here are few reasons .
MARRIAGE: On an average a girl completes
her education by 23 , then they get minimum 2 years to concentrate on their
professional front like jobs or career planning.
Now at 25 they are pretty much comfortable and capable enough to find right soul mate and tie the knot.
STRENGTHEN THE BOND : The pressing issue these days is separation, we see every 1 couple out of 10 are divorced or living separately and the very reason for this is late marriages, If you are below 30 then you'r mind still has room for adjustments, compromises , you can easily adapt or change yourself to the likes or dislikes of your partner which helps to understand each other and strengthen the bond. If you are in your 30 or 35 plus then you are already too matured that you cannot adjust to other person,also you feel you are too intelligent that you are the best person to understand yourself and you are in no mood to compromise on anything and then starts the struggle between you and me , rather than WE which is very important in marriage.So the early the marriage , the best is the way you grow together.
STRENGTHEN THE BOND : The pressing issue these days is separation, we see every 1 couple out of 10 are divorced or living separately and the very reason for this is late marriages, If you are below 30 then you'r mind still has room for adjustments, compromises , you can easily adapt or change yourself to the likes or dislikes of your partner which helps to understand each other and strengthen the bond. If you are in your 30 or 35 plus then you are already too matured that you cannot adjust to other person,also you feel you are too intelligent that you are the best person to understand yourself and you are in no mood to compromise on anything and then starts the struggle between you and me , rather than WE which is very important in marriage.So the early the marriage , the best is the way you grow together.
KIDS: After marriage the very next important part of life is planning for kids,
Having kids immediately within an year or 2 of marriage will become an important milestone of your future when you look back at the age of 40.
For Example ,Getting
ready for the first kid by 26 or 27 and second child by 30 has lot of positive
reasons.
You are now very energetic and physically healthy to handle any
kind of pressures parallel at professional or personal level.
So you have your family when you are young and dynamic and you can enjoy the time with your kids, play
with them and bask in every moment.
The major hurdle as you grow old is ,night outs for baby caring and this if you are young enough be done with
ease as you are physical fit and strong.
Being middle aged , you
will not have the same energy levels to hip hop with kids.
TRAVEL: You might be thinking that you will not have time to travel with your hubby if you have planned kids early, but by this time you will be just 30 plus.
The children will be grown up by
the age you are 35, and are no more toddlers .
Hence you can travel along
with them .
Entire family can go for trips and enjoy time with your
partner and kids, it would be lovely and great time as all of them will be in
high spirits and energies.
TIME
AGAIN FOR YOURSELF: By
the time you are 40, Kids are really grown up and are focused on their
secondary education, You get bit of time for yourself and to plan for small couple vacations too
in between. You can also now concentrate on earning money till the age you are
50 .
CONCLUSION:
In conclusion, if you
marry at right age, you will have right and long time to enjoy your life and be
happy to see your children grown up fast along with you getting aged seamlessly.
M -- MARRY
A -- ACCEPT
R -- RESPECT
R -- REVER
I -- IDOLIZE
A -- ADORE
G -- GIVE
E -- ENJOY
M -- MARRY
A -- ACCEPT
R -- RESPECT
R -- REVER
I -- IDOLIZE
A -- ADORE
G -- GIVE
E -- ENJOY